Mother's Day 2026: Reflections on Motherhood and Running a Micro-Business

I have been a mother for nearly 13 years.

After having a second child 10 years ago, the volume was turned up. Not a dull moment, I have to say. With one boy and one girl, and the age difference between them, gradually I will have to be increasingly specific, catering to each of their needs. 

Still fully engaged in "where is my PE kit?", "can you sign my trip letter?", "there is a science project next week!", "can you please help me...?". The boy wants to play football, training,  trading football cards, watch football matches... My girl is cartwheeling into the gymastics class, ballet, and drama. 

Regardless of there piquing interests changing month to month, I do my best to allow them to follow their new passions and hobbies.

Being the owner and founder of a micro business on the Stoke Newington High Street for the last 20 years, has come with its fair share of challenges. I probably have not chosen an easy profession for myself, as all the responsibility fall on me. 

The rising cost of operations, the curation of the shop, the staffing issues, customer relations, even organising a cleaner...   

All of these, in addition to being a mum of two, have made me a super organiser. In the middle of the night wake up and get two lists going: one for work and one for home. I am not boasting, but I get things done.  

It has been a stressful journey. There are things I could do better, but I accept I am not perfect. I am trying my best.

I have two loving children and I feel proud to be there for them day in and day out. I want to set them up in life with that solid support. I am there for them no matter what.  

I love seeing them laughing for the silliest things. I love watching them singing their favourite songs. I feel the sadness when they cry... I want to embrace them so tight. 

 Children are the most gorgeous innocent little creatures. They are a gift to me in this life.